Just Be Confident

Well, I know I am a bit immature to write on this topic but there is nothing wrong in trying. So,here we go..

"You will easily crack the interview, Just be confident in your answer."

"Dude, I am telling you that girl is crazy for you. Go and propose, but please be confident in your skin."

"You will create a great impression if you are just confident in whatever you do."

No matter what phase you are going through, how much trouble you are in, how much happy you are, confidence is compulsory. Confidence digs you out of your shit, multiplies your happiness and leads you to the correct decisions. But how to be confident?

1:- Body Language

Never be idle. Always use your hand gestures during communication. This not only shows how dynamic you are, but also shows your knowledge about the subject. A smile is compulsory. It clearly indicates that you are ready to accept any decision. A smile also creates a mental picture in your mind that the person you are talking to is of very friendly nature. This boosts up your confidence and you are able to express yourself more clearly.


2:- Respect the audience/viewer/the person you are talking to:-

If you are performing a stage show, always respect the audience. If you are in an interview, respect the interviewer. If you are proposing a girl, respect her. This will create a positive impression in other person mind. You will gain respect and in turn would get comfortable in the conversation.


3:- Be clear with your words

Never ever hesitate during a conversation. Speak slowly but speak clearly. There is no need to rush through in any conversation. Rushing and dragging in any conversation indicates that you are nervous, and you want to get over the convo quickly. Sometimes, people get so tensed and worried, that they are not able to understand what they are saying. So, speak slowly and clearly. If you are just clear in whatever you are trying to convey, it would boost up your confidence.


4:- Presence of Mind

This is one of the most important aspect to be kept in mind. Never cut your own views in a conversation. Take a stand on whatever you say and no matter what, never change it. For example, I read one interview on quora. I girl was asked whether she is willing to relocate if they offered her the job. She said no. The interview went on quite smoothly. At the end, the interviewer said," Congratulations for you new job. But you have to relocate. I guess you are comfortable."
And in excitement she said," Yes sir, Sure! I am willing to relocate wherever you want."

The interviewer laughed and rejected her. So, always stand strong on your points in any conversation. This displays how much confidence you have in your opinion.


5:- Believe In You

The words are self-explanatory.


As I already told you readers, I am still a novice in writing such articles. Still, I wanted to share my views. Hope it helps. :)

I IMAGINE

I imagine what a moment that would be
When i will stare deep in those lovely eyes.
You might not believe me,
But I will be killed by that sight.

I imagine what a moment that would be
When I will rasp that chubby cheeks,
Pink and fluffy, they look so adorable,
Can I give them a little kiss?

I imagine what a moment that would be
When you will shy and smile as I look at you,
My heart will skip a beat for sure.
Cause I will see a princess in you.

I imagine what a moment that would be
When I will talk about your lips.
Luckiest is the person who gets to touch them,
Cause nothing is sexier than these.

What Is Sex?

Before I move to make you aware about the real role of sex in love, I want to tell you what is the reality of sex. This chapter contains why sex is important, and how are we habituated to love sex. It has got some FAQs and some facts you knew but never thought about it in the following manner. 

Well here it goes:-

One day I had a conversation with a person I respect a lot. He said,

“Buddy, there is something about sex which I watched somewhere.”

“Before I tell you something, answer me a simple question,

“Whom does human love most in the world?”

 I was stuck there, because a lot of things were coming to my mind. Parents, life partner, friends etc.

Seriously readers what would come to your minds? Answer this, “When I say the word love, what comes up in your mind?” Teenagers who are in a relation will definitely say “MY BELOVED”, “LOVE OF MY LIFE”, “SWEETU”, “SWEETY” and things like that. Teenagers who are addicted to liquors will say Liquors. Some will say parents and all. But when you look over the entire human race, They will come up with a real simple line,

“My child means the world to me.”

And that’s what that someone told me,” You love your child the most.”
 

And how a child does come into world??

Sex is not an easy thing to understand. It is not just a coin with two faces of the same thing, nor a dice with six faces of the same thing. But it’s a thing which has infinite faces, and every individual looks into different faces of it. Some find it a means to reproduce, some ways to express love, some for relief and for some it’s just an orgasmic climax. But every living person has the desire for it, which develops over a course of time.

Here are some really simple questions that I used to ask myself. And when that someone told me about sex, I got the answers in a very simple manner.:-

Q.1.) Why do everyone has a desire for sex?

Ans:- This world works on the basis of “COME AND GO.” If you are born, you ought to die. But before death you have to reproduce someone who can continue the human race. And that someone can only come through sex. And if you don’t have the desire for sex, then definitely the human race will end someday.

Q.2.) Why do this desire develops only after a course of time?

Ans:- As it is said, there is a time for everything. God has made us that way that we develop this desire only after a period when we are mentally capable enough to handle a child. And a woman starts generating ova, only when she is capable enough to handle a baby in her womb.

Q.3.) Why it’s a race of a million sperms to a single ova?

It is said that that the probability of a male sustaining apocalypse is less than that of female. So if such thing happen, even a single male will be able to regenerate the human population on the earth.

Q.4.) Why male desire for sex is more than that of female?

Ans:- The answer for this question is in the question above. For males, it’s a million sperms in a single shot. But females, its single egg over a month. That is why, the hormones of the guys make them flirty and that of girl make them choosy.

I MAY SOUND A BIT VULGAR, BUT WE ARE SENT BY GOD, TO MAKE THIS PLANET A BETTER PLACE TO LIVE && “TO HAVE SEX.”

Is Sex Important In a Relationship?

Sex. A three letter word with 300 different meanings. For Some, its a Secret Way Of Expressing Love. For Some, its Lust. For Some its Just An Orgasmic Climax, etc. etc. But the Question Lies here is that Whether

“HAVING SEX IS IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP.?”

In countries like India, Sex is considered as a post nuptial thing.. Prenuptial hooking up is considered as Taboo in many parts of the country. If someone thinks over this in a broader way, Sex is considered the ultimate part of a Relation. It comes at the time, when both of them are ready to sacrifice them for one another. I am not telling that sex is a sacrifice. I am just explaining the extent of relationship after which one should have sex.

Looking at the developed countries, we may find that sex is considered as a Toy.

“I am bit horny, lets have it.”

“I am so bored, lets have that. ;) “

“I don’t understand why they haven’t had sex, let me have it and out.”

This may seem awkward to many of you, but believe me, this is the truth. Sex is considered more of a source of entertainment rather than the Secret Way Of Expressing Love. Every single Date (actually many dates just last for a single date) is just considered as a new style of having sexual pleasure.

Relationship has such a wide meaning. And its way beyond sex.

***A Relationship begins with how much two people are comfortable in talking with each other, how much they love talking to each other, how much are they addicted to each other.

***Then comes the Sharing. Once you are addicted to talking with someone, you will start finding topics. Once you are short of topics, you will start sharing personal things and feelings and feelings and all..

***This sets up an Infrangible Trust between the two. This Trust involuntarily makes you to like each other..

***Once you start hearing up, each other feelings, you start to live them. If she is upset, you are tensed. If she is in a problem, you put up the supreme effort you can to get her out of it. If she is happy, you are blissful. You start to live her life.

***And you know what after all this, you not only love that person. You respect her..

Once you respect someone, you will have a desire for her, Not for her body. That is why I said True Relationship is Beyond Sex..

Ultimately , I would like to Say :-

Sex is the Ultimate Pat Of Any Relation. It is not important to have sex to keep up with your relation. Its upto you all How you Consider it. But I have expressed my way of Thinking Over Relationship. God knows whether you care or not. But last thing that I want to add up and conclude is that..

“Sex Is Not A Compulsion, Its An Acceptance.” If you actually are in a True Relation, you wouldn’t give a Fuck About Having Sex Or Not.

IIM INDORE PI Experience

IIM Indore WAT-PI experience

WAT—Written Ability Test

The topic for discussion was pollution. Sounds easy isn’t it? But trust me, this was the toughest topic one could ever get. The reason being you had so many points to write about it, and you have just 300 words to do it. Moreover, we had to mention all the immediate actions that must be taken to prevent pollution. Half hour and 300 words made it one of the toughest topics to deal with.

Personal Interview

They gave you a form to fill in. It had questions like “Why MBA?”, “If not MBA, then what?” “What are your strengths and weakness?”. It was like a roadies audition.

There were three panellists.

P1= Kishan, show me your extra curricular certificates.

(I presented them with my SUPRA and BAJA certificates. I had fabricated a Formula One car with my team)

P1= What was your role in the team?

Me= Ma’am I was the suspension head in the team.

P1= Okay tell me which car in India has the best suspension and why?

(I kept on thinking for a minute…)

Me= I would say Duster ma’am.

P1= You would say but you won’t recommend Duster?

(I was a bit confused by her reply, So I remain dumb)

P1= What would you recommend them?

Me= Ma’am, if you are talking about Suspension, I would say Go for Duster.

P1= So you say that for a good ride and a good drive, go for duster? You drive right?

Me= No ma’am. Duster is only for suspension. For a good ride and drive, your options are open.

I smiled. The panel smiled back

P1= Okay what do you mean by good suspension?

(I explained them everything)

Suddenly, another panellist spoke up.

P2= You ever been to Darjeeling?

Me= No sir.

(He then asked me about the gear used for climbing up and down. Then he asked me how do we use brake and clutch system while coming down, I was getting nervous)

Me= Sir, sorry I don’t know.

The female panellist smiled and said= Come on! He is not a driver.

(More questions on gear system. Answered all.)

P2= You might be knowing about fuel efficiency. What’s the most fuel efficient gear system?

Me= The automatic gear system. Or the pneumatic gear system.

P2= But why?

(I couldn’t answer)

P3= Kishan, what’s a convergent series?

(I was shocked, Maths from nowhere. I didn’t brush up my maths, since my first year. Still I answered. They asked me two further questions on convergent series, One correct and one wrong.)

P1= What’s your backup plan?

Me= Ma’am backup plan in sense? Alternative career option, or if not IIM Indore this time, then what?

P2= Answer anything.

Me= I would try for another year, cause I am interested in MBA only.

P1= But in your form, you wrote Automobile.

Me= (they got me) Ma’am that’s my alternative career plan. If I won’t be a manager, I will be an Automobile Engineer.

P3= You wrote in your form, that you had issues with team management in the past. How are you working on that?

(I had a smart answer all prepared. I discussed my college activities. They seemed pleased.)

P1= Tell me any recent news about Automobile in India.

(I actually had knowledge about formula one. Still I gave it a try.)

Me= Ratan Tata bought two big automobile giants. Land Rover and Jaguar.

P1= What????? Land Rover???? Excuse me? Land Rover??

(She just shouted as I just committed a sin)

(I was hell of depressed. My nervousness went up to the peak.)

P1= Kishan you didn’t mention in your form that you get nervous so easily. Don’t be nervous. If you are not nervous, you might answer better.

Me= Okay maam. There is another news that I saw. (I had a news about a recent cycle that could run on any terrain.)

P1= You follow politics? Who’s the ruling party in Bihar?

( I answered)

P1= Do Nitish Kumar stand a chance in the next election? If yes then why?

Me= Yes ma’am. He does. Reason being, his works are clearly visible to the people. Blah blah…  I spoke for 5 long minutes

Okay thank you Kishan . J