Just Be Confident

Well, I know I am a bit immature to write on this topic but there is nothing wrong in trying. So,here we go..

"You will easily crack the interview, Just be confident in your answer."

"Dude, I am telling you that girl is crazy for you. Go and propose, but please be confident in your skin."

"You will create a great impression if you are just confident in whatever you do."

No matter what phase you are going through, how much trouble you are in, how much happy you are, confidence is compulsory. Confidence digs you out of your shit, multiplies your happiness and leads you to the correct decisions. But how to be confident?

1:- Body Language

Never be idle. Always use your hand gestures during communication. This not only shows how dynamic you are, but also shows your knowledge about the subject. A smile is compulsory. It clearly indicates that you are ready to accept any decision. A smile also creates a mental picture in your mind that the person you are talking to is of very friendly nature. This boosts up your confidence and you are able to express yourself more clearly.


2:- Respect the audience/viewer/the person you are talking to:-

If you are performing a stage show, always respect the audience. If you are in an interview, respect the interviewer. If you are proposing a girl, respect her. This will create a positive impression in other person mind. You will gain respect and in turn would get comfortable in the conversation.


3:- Be clear with your words

Never ever hesitate during a conversation. Speak slowly but speak clearly. There is no need to rush through in any conversation. Rushing and dragging in any conversation indicates that you are nervous, and you want to get over the convo quickly. Sometimes, people get so tensed and worried, that they are not able to understand what they are saying. So, speak slowly and clearly. If you are just clear in whatever you are trying to convey, it would boost up your confidence.


4:- Presence of Mind

This is one of the most important aspect to be kept in mind. Never cut your own views in a conversation. Take a stand on whatever you say and no matter what, never change it. For example, I read one interview on quora. I girl was asked whether she is willing to relocate if they offered her the job. She said no. The interview went on quite smoothly. At the end, the interviewer said," Congratulations for you new job. But you have to relocate. I guess you are comfortable."
And in excitement she said," Yes sir, Sure! I am willing to relocate wherever you want."

The interviewer laughed and rejected her. So, always stand strong on your points in any conversation. This displays how much confidence you have in your opinion.


5:- Believe In You

The words are self-explanatory.


As I already told you readers, I am still a novice in writing such articles. Still, I wanted to share my views. Hope it helps. :)