Is Sex Important In a Relationship?
Sex. A three letter word with 300
different meanings. For Some, its a Secret Way Of Expressing Love. For Some,
its Lust. For Some its Just An Orgasmic Climax, etc. etc. But the Question Lies
here is that Whether
“HAVING SEX IS IMPORTANT IN A
RELATIONSHIP.?”
In countries like India, Sex is
considered as a post nuptial thing.. Prenuptial hooking up is considered as
Taboo in many parts of the country. If someone thinks over this in a broader
way, Sex is considered the ultimate part of a Relation. It comes at the time,
when both of them are ready to sacrifice them for one another. I am not telling
that sex is a sacrifice. I am just explaining the extent of relationship after
which one should have sex.
Looking at the developed
countries, we may find that sex is considered as a Toy.
“I
am bit horny, lets have it.”
“I
am so bored, lets have that. ;) “
“I
don’t understand why they haven’t had sex, let me have it and out.”
This may seem awkward to many of
you, but believe me, this is the truth. Sex is considered more of a source of
entertainment rather than the Secret Way Of Expressing Love. Every single Date
(actually many dates just last for a single date) is just considered as a new
style of having sexual pleasure.
Relationship has such a wide
meaning. And its way beyond sex.
***A Relationship begins with how
much two people are comfortable in talking with each other, how much they love
talking to each other, how much are they addicted to each other.
***Then comes the Sharing. Once
you are addicted to talking with someone, you will start finding topics. Once
you are short of topics, you will start sharing personal things and feelings
and feelings and all..
***This sets up an Infrangible
Trust between the two. This Trust involuntarily makes you to like each other..
***Once you start hearing up, each
other feelings, you start to live them. If she is upset, you are tensed. If she
is in a problem, you put up the supreme effort you can to get her out of it. If
she is happy, you are blissful. You start to live her life.
***And you know what after all
this, you not only love that person. You respect her..
Once you respect someone, you will
have a desire for her, Not for her body. That is why I said True Relationship
is Beyond Sex..
Ultimately , I would like to Say
:-
Sex is the Ultimate Pat Of Any
Relation. It is not important to have sex to keep up with your relation. Its
upto you all How you Consider it. But I have expressed my way of Thinking Over
Relationship. God knows whether you care or not. But last thing that I want to
add up and conclude is that..
“Sex Is Not A Compulsion, Its An
Acceptance.” If you actually are in a True Relation, you wouldn’t give a Fuck
About Having Sex Or Not.
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