Thursday, 23 February 2017

Is Sex Important In a Relationship?







Sex. A three letter word with 300 different meanings. For Some, its a Secret Way Of Expressing Love. For Some, its Lust. For Some its Just An Orgasmic Climax, etc. etc. But the Question Lies here is that Whether

“HAVING SEX IS IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP.?”

In countries like India, Sex is considered as a post nuptial thing.. Prenuptial hooking up is considered as Taboo in many parts of the country. If someone thinks over this in a broader way, Sex is considered the ultimate part of a Relation. It comes at the time, when both of them are ready to sacrifice them for one another. I am not telling that sex is a sacrifice. I am just explaining the extent of relationship after which one should have sex.

Looking at the developed countries, we may find that sex is considered as a Toy.


“I am bit horny, lets have it.”

“I am so bored, lets have that. ;) “

“I don’t understand why they haven’t had sex, let me have it and out.”


This may seem awkward to many of you, but believe me, this is the truth. Sex is considered more of a source of entertainment rather than the Secret Way Of Expressing Love. Every single Date (actually many dates just last for a single date) is just considered as a new style of having sexual pleasure.

Relationship has such a wide meaning. And its way beyond sex.

***A Relationship begins with how much two people are comfortable in talking with each other, how much they love talking to each other, how much are they addicted to each other.

***Then comes the Sharing. Once you are addicted to talking with someone, you will start finding topics. Once you are short of topics, you will start sharing personal things and feelings and feelings and all..

***This sets up an Infrangible Trust between the two. This Trust involuntarily makes you to like each other..

***Once you start hearing up, each other feelings, you start to live them. If she is upset, you are tensed. If she is in a problem, you put up the supreme effort you can to get her out of it. If she is happy, you are blissful. You start to live her life.

***And you know what after all this, you not only love that person. You respect her..

Once you respect someone, you will have a desire for her, Not for her body. That is why I said True Relationship is Beyond Sex..

Ultimately , I would like to Say :-

Sex is the Ultimate Pat Of Any Relation. It is not important to have sex to keep up with your relation. Its upto you all How you Consider it. But I have expressed my way of Thinking Over Relationship. God knows whether you care or not. But last thing that I want to add up and conclude is that..

“Sex Is Not A Compulsion, Its An Acceptance.” If you actually are in a True Relation, you wouldn’t give a Fuck About Having Sex Or Not.

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